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Who Holds You When You Hold Everyone Else?
She was 33, the kind of woman who always remembered your birthday, showed up with snacks for the group chat link-up, and kept bobby pins in her bag just in case someone’s curls needed saving.

Alexis Higgins
May 292 min read


The Art of Discernment: Protecting Your Softness in a Loud World
Sometimes, the safest thing you can do is pause. Not everyone deserves your “yes.”Not every space is meant to hold your softness.Not...

Alexis Higgins
May 174 min read


✈️ Signs He’s Safe: Green Flags Every Woman with a Big Heart Should Look For
You know that feeling when you finally land after a long flight and the pilot’s voice comes over the intercom saying, “Welcome. You’ve arrived safely”? That’s the feeling a safe love should give you.

Alexis Higgins
May 83 min read


Safe to Love Series for Women Who Give Their All
This one’s for all my girlies who give and give… and then give some more.

Alexis Higgins
May 62 min read


Falling for Myself Again: How 2025 Is My Year of Care
My Wellness Era is here, and it’s time to prioritize my health, beauty, and self-care in ways that reflect the inner growth I’ve nurtured.

Alexis Higgins
Feb 173 min read


When Life Feels Like Too Much: How I’m Learning to Slow Down and Breathe
Wheww, chile—life has been life-ing lately. This year has been a whirlwind of new opportunities, and I’ve been riding that wave. New job,...

Alexis Higgins
Sep 14, 20243 min read


Me, Myself, and I: 4 Solo Dates Ideas to Reconnect with Yourself
Twenty-one years ago, Queen Bey dropped a hit that stuck with me ever since. At just nine years old, I vibed to 'Me, Myself, and it was...

Alexis Higgins
May 20, 20244 min read


Living with Purpose: Finding the Courage to Flex Your Way Out of a Mundane Life
In this blog, I'll take you on a journey as I rediscover my purpose. It's all about finding the courage to ditch the mundane life.

Alexis Higgins
Mar 3, 20245 min read


She Knows Best: Navigating the 30s with Remarkable Women's Wisdom.
Hey there, beautiful souls! The big 3-0 has rolled around, and I'm buzzing with excitement about the future. You know, hitting those...

Alexis Higgins
Sep 18, 20238 min read


Forever Her Favorites: TV Shows that Shaped my Girlhood
Let me spill the tea on the four TV shows that played a major role in shaping me into the woman I am today:

Alexis Higgins
Jul 31, 20233 min read


The Certified Dreamer's Playbook
Welcome to the Certified Dreamer's Playbook, your guide to chasing those big goals and unlocking your true potential.

Alexis Higgins
May 28, 20235 min read


The Power of Embracing Your Authentic Self: Lessons from “That Girl”
Learn how to use the power of embracing your authentic self by becoming that girl!

Alexis Higgins
Apr 8, 20233 min read


Rest & Reset Your Life!
Rest is a simple four-letter word, but people have difficulty doing it. As a young adult, rest is something I make a priority in my life....

Alexis Higgins
Sep 11, 20222 min read


Thank You, Next
The lessons I’ve learned from every guy that has come and gone out of my life. Valentine’s day is right around the corner, and I’m single...

Alexis Higgins
Feb 12, 20225 min read


2022: Year of Consistency
So that's a wrap for 2021! This past year was not the easiest or the smoothest year. I was tested more than ever. I lost a lot, but I...

Alexis Higgins
Jan 30, 20225 min read


An Open Letter To The Past Me
Dear Self, Happy Birthday to the past me. Year 27 was rough, but you got through it. All the tears, struggles, and pain made you into the...

Alexis Higgins
Sep 18, 20212 min read


Girl, What Are You Waiting For?
Tips on how to handle the waiting season. I love new seasons and changes, but I have a bitter-sweet feeling about the waiting season. The...

Alexis Higgins
Jun 11, 20215 min read


A Single Girl’s Guide To Valentine's Day
I love Valentine's Day! Valentine’s Day is like a second birthday to me because it gives me an excuse to splurge on myself! Valentine’s...

Alexis Higgins
Feb 13, 20213 min read


Self Reflections: Old to New Seasons
Well, I made it! I can now say I’m graduating with my Master’s degree. It’s has been a long but short road, and I am forever grateful for...

Alexis Higgins
Dec 12, 20205 min read


What About Your Friends: Tips on how to maintain healthy friendships.
Making friends is one of the easiest things for me. It honestly happens so effortlessly. I am not aware of what’s going on until I...
Alexis Higgins
Oct 17, 20205 min read
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